Saturday, July 26, 2008

Being Lonely- A drug effect

It often feels I am one of those few unlucky ones who is so lonely, who has no friend, and family faraway. The next moment I narrate it to someone I meet and gather sympathy, and when he or she lends a helping hand of company, I suddenly feel getting bored, and feel I was happy when I was all alone.

Then one day again I feel being lonely due to circumstances, and I start feeling the syndrome again, however with time I realise that I like being alone and lonely and also crib about it. It is not others who ignore me but it is me who wants to be ignored and spend a pecularly silent life.

This is known as the "LONELY DRUG EFFECT". Why drug effect? Because if you use this time when you are alone to gather your thoughts and do something positive which helps you overall in life or gives you satisfaction is something different, that cribbing about a lack of companion and gathering pity from people you interact. Because then one day without your knowing, you become a boring character who people who would be most happy avoiding, and the DAY this happens you are "REALLY LONELY" , that is when the drug has done the damage.

So all those guys who think they have no company, they are in a pitiable condition, look around there are a lot of people like you, it is just your vision towards life which needs to change, go ahead and extend your hands to make friends rather than expecting others to do it, and also learn to know them before you start off with your narration of life!

1 comment:

Ellie said...

Been at this place so many times! Fought this and given up so many times!

Tried looking around the corners to see if things can change - but you already know they cant, rite! :)

so we do..what we can do the best. Enjoy the ride!

Nice reviews :) Sittin alone at the movies does leave out all distractions I guess! :P