SATISFACTION IN SAYING "SORRY" and ways to say it!

In life, people often think that the most difficult thing to do for them is to accept their own mistakes, and saying sorry. Yes, at the first instance when you are defending yourself, it is! But the next moment, you think calmly and analyse what the other person did/said, you feel like apologizing, don't hold back then! Go straight and say it ---"SORRY". It is like a jinx, trust me, once you do it the first time, the second time is even easier, and then it comes naturally. But doing it the first time requires you to do a lot of soul-searching.

I didnt say "SORRY" till I was in college, but since I have been a happier person, satisfied that I can accept my mistakes if I make them.

There are multiple ways of saying "SORRY" :
1. When you say the word, just as another word in your vocabulary, it actually isn't what you really care about, which is even worse than not saying the word. Most of us do it!
2. When you say the word, crying(girls, girls!!!), that makes the person to whom it is being said feel sorry for his actions( I am biased to say him here not her), becuase guys seldom cry and say sorry
3. Saying sorry with a smile, this is the one which is all-conquering and actually shows your acceptance of the mistake. This is the one which is really genuine, and wins hearts!
4. Saying sorry being scared, this is actually not being sorry, but we say this because we feel the person with whom we are dealing is stronger than us, and if we don't comply we are going to get punished. This never helps both ways. This is one of the worst ones.
5. This is the last one, where you keep making the mistakes and keep repeating this word, then it has no value, because you are not learning what you should, and you have become so shameless to keep repeating the errors and even more shameless to accept it by saying "SORRY"

The day one goes with the option of number 3 above, he/she gets the maximum satisfaction in life, this is when you become pure. You love your life for some moments after you do this, a feeling which cannot be described, not comparable to anything else in life maybe........

Look back and think now, after all is it so difficult to "SAY SORRY"!!!!!!

Change of Mood--Defining the true character Self

Most people who have read my post, think I am a bit too boring, for a sprightly person to read on. However the write-ups connect well with folks who are loners! But I would now change my perspective slightly to sound interesting--An attempt!

Life is not a serious place, atleast not always, Ever since I have started being independent away from family, I have learnt a lot of things: Cooking, washing clothes, Buying vegetables, Bargaining and become a movie freak, who eagerly waits for a new movie to come off the shelf of Bollywood.

Folks who watched Bachna Ae Haseeno, just a warning, Microsoft doesn't give you a 6 month vacation, if that would have been the case it would have been mind-blowing :).

Live life to the fullest, live your passion about anything you do by your sleeve, atleast this keeps me ticking, making me look aggressive at times, and serious at others, but that is the fun quotient in my life. My craving for perfection or rather to put it, "TO BE PERCIEVED TO BE STRIVING FOR PERFECTION" is something I usually achieve.

May be that is one of the reasons, I haven't been able to chose the ultimate friend of life till to date. But that is O.K. One day I would find a person as imperfect as me myself in Life!

You can leave your comments about the movie reviews here!

I have now been taking this job slightly more seriously, as compared to what I was doing in the past, since I have got some cool reviews. I would like you to share a critical review of the reviews I have tried my hand at.

Thanks,
Amit