SATISFACTION IN SAYING "SORRY" and ways to say it!

In life, people often think that the most difficult thing to do for them is to accept their own mistakes, and saying sorry. Yes, at the first instance when you are defending yourself, it is! But the next moment, you think calmly and analyse what the other person did/said, you feel like apologizing, don't hold back then! Go straight and say it ---"SORRY". It is like a jinx, trust me, once you do it the first time, the second time is even easier, and then it comes naturally. But doing it the first time requires you to do a lot of soul-searching.

I didnt say "SORRY" till I was in college, but since I have been a happier person, satisfied that I can accept my mistakes if I make them.

There are multiple ways of saying "SORRY" :
1. When you say the word, just as another word in your vocabulary, it actually isn't what you really care about, which is even worse than not saying the word. Most of us do it!
2. When you say the word, crying(girls, girls!!!), that makes the person to whom it is being said feel sorry for his actions( I am biased to say him here not her), becuase guys seldom cry and say sorry
3. Saying sorry with a smile, this is the one which is all-conquering and actually shows your acceptance of the mistake. This is the one which is really genuine, and wins hearts!
4. Saying sorry being scared, this is actually not being sorry, but we say this because we feel the person with whom we are dealing is stronger than us, and if we don't comply we are going to get punished. This never helps both ways. This is one of the worst ones.
5. This is the last one, where you keep making the mistakes and keep repeating this word, then it has no value, because you are not learning what you should, and you have become so shameless to keep repeating the errors and even more shameless to accept it by saying "SORRY"

The day one goes with the option of number 3 above, he/she gets the maximum satisfaction in life, this is when you become pure. You love your life for some moments after you do this, a feeling which cannot be described, not comparable to anything else in life maybe........

Look back and think now, after all is it so difficult to "SAY SORRY"!!!!!!